Tips to develop your personality

Your personality represents the society how you are!

People do measure one’s personality by his/her appearance, behavior, attitude, education, values & some more characteristics.

It is really important to develop your personality to achieve your life goals.

Here are a few tips to develop your personality.

1. Stop being jealous

Jealousy born with the feeling that the other people have something better than you.

You are assuming their life is great hence you have no idea how their life is really like.

The Same coin has two sides, likewise there might be so many unseen parts of their life hence most people truly do not reveal their actual life to the society. Not knowing the truth if you spend your time obsessing someone else, you are truly destroying your life. Your feelings don’t hurt the person who you are jealous of, but it hurts yourself only. In order to develop your personality inner beauty is very important. Therefore, if someone has something more than you, it’s time to work hard to achieve the same or more or else understand and accept what your life has given.

2. Complement others

The image what you are building to the society is really important for your personality.

Being good & nice to others do not harm yourself but uplift your values.

If you see something good in someone just compliment them. They will love you for that.

3. Dress Smart

To dress smart you do not need more money or do shopping newly. You just need to know your body type, face type, hair type, & your skin type /texture. If you are well aware on those you can select what type of makeup, dresses & hairstyles suites you most. When selecting on attire & accessories, dress according to the situation & environment. You need to know what suits you best & you should be able to carry yourself confident while wearing those.

4. Your body language

People will judge you by your gesture and not by your speaking. Therefore you need to know what your body conveying while you do talking. When you are on a discussion & feel a lack of confidence, do take care on your body signals not to reveal others that you are in self-doubt. In these kind of situations be brief in your speaking & act as you are very confident on what you are talking.

5. Be the original version of you

There is no other person in the world with your mindset, attitudes, appearance, behavior, soul & so on.

You are unique. So what you need to do is cut & polish your own personality & be bright with every goodness.

There is no harm in learning from your role model. If you have an idol with a fantastic personality, observe that person & learn this person’s positive & negative points. Then you may adopt only the best qualities of that person.  Keep on your mind learning & developing is not imitating.

6. Stop trying to control everything & everyone

It is impossible to control everyone & everything. But most of the people try to do so because of the fear. Fear for what? Some people are afraid of law security, law of self-esteem, fear of being abundant, etc. If you are doing right thing at the right time there is nothing to fear hence no body is perfect. Learn from your mistakes. First, you need to understand why you need to control everything. Be willing to change & little by little let go controlling everything. This will give you peace of mind & will reduce your bossy attitude. If it is hard to do so just consider how you feel about the issue five years from now. For sure you will realize what to do now.

7. Read more & expand your interest

This will help you to perform yourself as an interesting person to the society. You are expanding knowledge, cultivating a variety of interests, develop good communication skills, became a good conversationalist, build up your own opinions& build up your social skills.

Above are only few tips which I believe are not hard to practice. We have the power & ability to shape our personality as per our wish!

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